My 92 year old mother fell yesterday. We spent 6 hours in the hospital emergency room getting her checked out and patched up.
For most people of that age a fall flat on the face on a concrete sidewalk would spell a broken hip, a cracked head, and possibly a heart attack. Not for my mother. Oh, she went home with a splint on a broken wrist and a broken jaw that will be wired up on Monday. But thanks to a remarkable constitution and particularly strong bones, she was able to go home that same day and could even walk a few paces with assistance. Except for a broken collarbone a few years ago, this is the only other accident my mother has had that has caused broken bones in 92 years.
What is the secret to my mother's long, healthy life? Well, for one thing, she walks regularly. That's what she was doing when she fell. Unfortunately, sometimes you need to deal with the risks in order to get the longterm gain. Until recently, Mother was walking about 3 miles a day. Because of a case of vertigo she now only walks a mile or so a day, with the help of a cane or walker. She was wearing a pedometer at the time she fell, contributing to her team's good showing at her retirement home's walk-a-
thon contest. Now she'll be stuck in a wheel chair until her wrist heals, but I'm sure she'll be back at it soon, walking at least a mile a day.
Another secret to my mother's longevity are her strong bones. She has always eaten right. She generally eats her main meal during the noon hour and goes for lots of salads, fresh vegetables and homemade soups. She almost always has a glass of milk with her lunch, and usually has a glass in the morning with cereal. She takes a regular vitamin supplement, and she swears by
Goji Juice, a tasty and refreshing natural berry drink made from the
Himalayan Goji berry. My mother has experienced a drop in blood pressure, easier time sleeping and fewer aches and pains from arthritis that she attributes to a daily regime of 4 ounces of
Goji Juice.
Another key ingredient to my mother's long and healthy life is that she has kept the weight off all her life. She lost 32 pounds shortly before she got married in 1940 and she's stayed within 5 pounds of the same weight ever since, right around 112. If she feels that her clothes are getting just a little tight she does something about it immediately. She'll cut down on
carbs or go for more frequent walks-- something to get that extra couple pounds off immediately. This way she's never let those pounds get ahead of her. No having to stare a 75 pound diet in the face like me!
Lastly, my mother always looks on the optimistic side of things. Even in the emergency room and with a broken jaw yesterday, my mother was able to smile at the doctors and joke a bit. While she was flat on her back on a hospital gurney waiting for the next round of doctors to examine her she was quoting some of her favorite poetry about looking on the bright side of things. My mother is also thoroughly convinced that having an optimistic attitude is what has kept her going long after others have died. She commented that she can't think of a single person at her retirement facility who has opted to be a sourpuss who is still alive. Long life and health definitely are more frequently conferred on people who take life as it comes and turn lemons into lemonade.
Well, time to go check on my mother.
Liz Nichols